The more polite the refusal, the louder the crunch of the break. Polite refusal The more polite the refusal, the

At heart I am a very kind and sensitive person. But when I get out of the shower, I’m such a bastard!

Nature has made a lot of mistakes, and now they all come to rest on it.

Tolerance is when your ass is red with anger, and your head smiles and nods.

I searched for my soul mate for a long time, but never found it. Probably because he was born whole.

Whatever the hell jokes while God sleeps!

Decent thoughts don't wander around in empty attics.

A man without a dream is like a bird without wings. It can shit, but it can't fly...

Sometimes you have to pretend to be a fool so as not to look like an idiot.

I would like to have not only a conscience...

A woman never knows what she wants. But she knows perfectly well what she wants!

The phrases “You have to try everything in life” and “Once is a no-brainer” were coined by the same person.

Only those who look at you with tenderness have beautiful eyes...

If you have found the woman of your dreams, you can say goodbye to your other dreams.

The best part about babies is the process of making them.

On interesting work and I have interesting dreams.

Discussions about the fate of the Fatherland on the leather seats of limousines sound more soulful and sincere than in queues at the labor exchange.

Don't offend our billionaires and politicians! They, like children, live at our expense.

If money doesn't make you happy, it means you don't have it.

If a woman Bad mood, we are trying to improve it; if it's good, use it.

Hell is terrible not for hot frying pans, but for those who fry on them.

Forty years is the time when it is time to finish starting life and start ending it.

Old age begins when you come to the conclusion that most of the things you would ever want will never happen, and most of the things that will happen you would never want.

In our difficult times, the sense of community has completely disappeared. All that was left was the feeling of a knee... in the ass.

The trouble is not that our work loves fools, but that they like to run it.

To become Judas, one betrayal is enough.

Relatives are a group of people who periodically gather to count themselves and have a tasty meal due to a change in their number.

Women are such touching creatures, you could touch them and touch them...

In each of us there lives a child who was forgotten to flog.

Where it is not allowed to laugh, there, as a rule, it is forbidden to cry.

What do women desire? Women want everything to be the way they want it!

A real Jew should... No, no, not like that! A real Jew should!

All is not lost yet! More to lose and lose!

Having a conscience is not profitable at all - it is much more profitable to sell it at a higher price.

A person is never as unhappy as he thinks, or as happy as he wants.

A jealous husband is looking for a lover in the closet, a smart one is looking for things that he did not buy for his wife.

If a woman begins a sentence with the words “I don’t want to offend you,” prepare to hear the most offensive thing in your life.

There are two types of women: the first sell their availability, and the second sell their inaccessibility.

Life is like a dog sled. If you are not the leader, the picture never changes.

He who is married is not afraid of a vuvuzela!

If a woman doesn’t want to have sex, then she has a headache. If a man doesn't want to have sex, then he's a soulless bastard.

As Berezovsky says, a refugee is better than a seedling.

There are many people in the world who are dissatisfied with life, but no one has ever complained about death.

It is unfair when some inherit ancestral property, while others inherit ancestral trauma.

Fortune smiles on those whom Themis does not notice.

If they try to drag you into win-win lottery, this means that you will not leave without losing.

People understand best what they don't have.

In Russia, an optimist is not the one who is the first to shout “Hurray!”, but the one who is the last to shout “Guard!”

I don't have an alcohol addiction, I have an alcohol addiction.

"Polite refusal"- Soviet and Russian rock band.

Story

The Moscow group “Polite Refusal” was formed in October 1985. In the winter of the same year, the group's first concert took place in the Palace of Culture.

Defining at least an approximate stylistic framework for the group has always been a headache for music critics. From the very beginning, Polite Refusal was characterized by eclecticism and polystylism, which were by no means characteristic of the overwhelming majority of groups of that time. Favorite lyrical hero group is an eccentric esthete, who, by the will of fate, finds himself in the middle of a theater of military operations. At a performance on the “Musical Ring” program in January 1989, VO leader Roman Suslov defined his creative credo as “a profanation of totalitarian heroism.”

The original lineup of the group included pianist and songwriter Pyotr Plavinsky, balalaika guitarist and composer Roman Suslov, vocalist Dmitry Shumilov, bass guitarist Mikhail Vereshchagin, drummer Mikhail Mitin, poets and showmen Arkady Semyonov and Gor Oganisyan. Debut album"Polite Refusal" Opera 86 was released in 1986. Half of the record consisted of songs based on poems by Pyotr Plavinsky, and the second part was written by the famous poet Arkady Semyonov and Roman Suslov. Also in 1986, Pyotr Plavinsky, now known as an expert in Russian, left the group visual arts XX century, successful gallery owner and specialist in nonconformism.

Premiere new program“refuseniks” “Dust on the Shoes” took place in December 1986 at the birthday of the Rock Laboratory. “Arkady Semyonov trumpets his poems to the beat of the drums. On stage - Gor Hovhannisyan (Gor Chahal - the most famous contemporary artist). The music is hard and aggressive. Saxophonist Vladimir Davydov joins the group right at the concert,” Roman Suslov recalls this event.

The album “Dust on Shoes” was released in 1987, and it was recognized as the best Moscow release of the year. The group participates in the Rock Panorama-87 festival, teleconferences and the Musical Ring program. In all these events, “VO” appears in a slightly modified form: Roman Suslov becomes a vocalist, Dmitry Shumilov becomes a pianist.

In 1989, the Melodiya company released a vinyl disc of “Polite Refusal,” known among music lovers under the unofficial name “White Record.” Especially for this edition, songs from the band's first albums were re-recorded in more high-quality sound. The famous violinist Sergei Ryzhenko and trumpeter Andrei Soloviev took part in the studio sessions. The record's circulation was 125,000 copies. The cover design was done by artist and conceptual musician Sven Gundlach (who was a member of the associations of conceptual artists “Amanita” and “Central Russian Upland”). The bass and key parts in the album were recorded by Dmitry Shumilov. It was during the work on this record that a new pianist Maxim Trefan appeared in the group (ex-Nicholas Copernicus, guest keyboardist of the bands Alliance, Corrosion of Metal), who also recorded with the groups Obermaneken, Matrosskaya Tishina and Spleen, who wrote the annotation on the cover.

Since 1989, “Polite Refusal” began to actively tour in Europe. At the performances of Polite Refusal of this time, the program “Ethnic Experiments” (1991) was tested, documenting Roman Suslov’s transition from meaningful texts to onomatopoeic “music of phonemes.” By this time, Suslov, in addition to music, had another serious occupation. Having bought two horses, Roman moved to the village - and over time became the founder of a stud farm, one of the first private ones in Russia, and subsequently - for a short period - the chairman of a collective farm in the Tula region.

Upon returning from a European tour, the group recorded the album “ And-and times!…», notable topic that the musicians managed to record it in just three days in 1992. Stakhanov's pace of work did not at all affect the quality of the product: the album is characterized by seasoned instrumental art and aesthetic integrity. With this program, the group participates in the Berlin Festival of Avant-Garde Music, and the album itself “And-and again!...” is widely distributed throughout Russia on vinyl, CD and branded audio cassettes. The premiere of the record takes place at the Palace of Culture on Volkhonka opposite the Pushkin Museum. Pushkin to a full house.

In 1995, after the appearance of the first after an almost three-year break new song(“Fit”), which premiered at the “Crooked Caponier” club in Kyiv, an anthology “Polite Refusal 1985-1995” is published, dedicated to the tenth anniversary of the group. For the first time, concert hits of the eighties, written to texts by Gor Oganisyan and Arkady Semyonov, were recorded on it: “Cantata of a Kettlebell Master”, “Oncoming Movement”, “Portrait”.

Soon the group begins work on new material. Young saxophonist Pavel Tonkovid (a graduate of the Gnessin Academy) appears in the group, and trumpeter Andrei Soloviev (participant in avant-garde projects, radio presenter, philosopher) becomes a permanent member of the group. And in the fall of 1997, the album “Scythe on a Stone” was released, which is the fruit of the collective creativity of all group members. The album turned out to be more avant-garde and diverse than the team’s previous works. In addition, the role of wind instruments has noticeably increased. The group actively gives concerts in music clubs in Moscow. He is the organizer of the “Damn Moscow-Berlin” event in the “Aquarium” garden on the canopy of the theater. Mossovet, as well as the initiator of the joint action “Heroes of Our Time” in Moscow together with the groups “Nezhdali” and “Vopli-Vidoplyasova”. Chamber concerts of “Polite Refusal” are held in the Moscow museums of Vladimir Mayakovsky and Alexander Scriabin, at which new plays are presented to the public, which formed the basis of the group’s next album, “Geranium”.

Work on “Geranium” is not going well. Roman Suslov is more and more distracted by his horse-breeding business in the village. The group continues to give concerts, the album is almost completely ready, but concerts are held less and less often. In 1999, due to a hand injury received in a serious car accident, Maxim Trefan left the group.

The recording of “Geranium” is carried out in two sessions - in 2000 and 2001. To record piano parts during the second session, on the advice of Anton Batagov (pianist, minimalist composer), the famous Moscow composer Pavel Karmanov is invited, who soon becomes an active member of the group. The record with the recording of the first session passes from hand to hand in Moscow and becomes a collector's rarity. In the fall of 2000, “Polite Refusal” takes part in the World Music Festival, where it gives two concerts, and performs at the Elbow Room club in New York.

Finally, in October 2002, “Geranium” was released on CD. The genre of this work can be roughly defined as avant-progressive rock with elements of free jazz improvisations. Five texts for this album were written by the wonderful poet and philologist Grigory Dashevsky, who became famous for his translations of Truman Capote, Robert Penn Warren, Raymond Carver, Joseph Brodsky, Vladimir Nabokov, Aldous Huxley, Francis Yeats, Rene Girard. The group reaches the peak of its form, but at the end of the concert in Cultural Center“Home” December 12, 2002 Roman Suslov unexpectedly announces termination musical activity and the closure of the Polite Refusal project. The group holds farewell concerts in Moscow, St. Petersburg, Vladimir and Kyiv and ceases its activities until 2006.

Every appearance of the group on stage becomes an event in cultural life. Following the results of one of these concerts - performances at the Moscow Art Theater named after. Gorky on March 24, 2006, in honor of the 25th anniversary of the group, a quadruple (2CD + 2 DVD) live album “Concerto” was released. The concert at the Moscow Art Theater was also notable for the fact that during preparation for it, violinist Sergei Ryzhenko joined the group, and also for the fact that former members groups: Pyotr Plavinsky, who once came up with the name “Polite Refusal”, and Maxim Trefan - pianist at VO from 1989 to 2000.

The group currently consists of: drummer Mikhail Mitin, trumpeter Andrei Soloviev, pianist Pavel Karmanov and bassist Dmitry Shumilov, violinist Sergei Ryzhenko, who has constant entertainment in Moscow clubs, and, finally, Roman Suslov, guitarist, author of music and the main ideologist of the “circle” musical research."

IN different time"Refusal" has shared the stage with the likes of UB40, Mister Gang, Lindsey Cooper, Orthotonics, Fred Frith (Keep the Dog), Tim Hodgkinson, Peter Hammill, Ustad Fateh Ali Khan and Misty in Roots.

On May 29, 2009, “Polite Refusal” took part in a very unusual concert. Together with the First Symphony Ensemble without conductor Persimfans, recently recreated by pianist Petr Aidu on the basis of the School’s music laboratory dramatic art", the group presented a joint project"Nichtzusammen" in the Central House of Artists. A gift to the audience was a poetic introduction by the poet and one of the founders of the group Arkady Semenov, as well as the performance by Roman Suslov together with pianist Peter Aidu of the vocal cycle “Four Newspaper Ads”, created in the 20s of the last century by constructivist composer Alexander Mosolov. In addition, Persimfans took part in the performance of two songs from “Refusal” - “March” and “Tikirika”. The program for Persimfans's performance at this concert included two works by Igor Stravinsky - Ragtime for 11 instruments and the chamber concert "Dumbarton Oaks". It is also worth noting the program of Peter Aidu - “Bells and Bells”, in which “VO” regularly takes part.

In April 2010, “Polite Refusal” completed work on its first numbered album in 7 years, which received the unexpected name “Geese-Swans”. The album includes songs already tested at concerts such as “Buryat Sea”, “Led Zepelin”, “Murka”, as well as a completely new instrumental piece “Etude”, composed while working in the studio. The presentation of the album, published by the Zenith (Union) label, took place on April 9, 2010 at the Moscow club “Ikra”, at which the public was also presented with another composition that was not included in the album “Geese-Swans” - “Lukhta”.

Later - in May and June 2010 - the chamber composition of the group was presented to the public, consisting of the trio Suslov-Karmanov-Shumilov and one of the pair of soloists of the group - Andrei Solovyov and Sergei Ryzhenko. At chamber concerts, the detailed structure of each composition and each instrumental part in it (and not only from the new program, but also from previous works). However, at the same time, the group does not lose either in dynamics, or in complexity and clarity. musical construction. Now “electric” concerts of the full sextet “Polite Refusal” alternate with apartment shows and acoustic performances of the chamber composition in small venues.

In 2011, “Polite Refusal” continued performing in clubs and on concert venues Moscow, St. Petersburg and Perm. On March 12, the following two plays were shown in Moscow - “Overture” and “History” - from the “military cycle”, work on which Roman Suslov began in the summer of 2008. And in December, at the festival dedicated to the 10th anniversary of the GEOMETRIA label, the plays “What if!” and “Rommel and Ice Cream” (the latter play was later renamed “Guderjan and Ice Cream”). At this point, the “Couplets” included “We will win!”, “Overture”, “What if!”, “Guderjan and Ice Cream”, “Tikireka” (also included in the album “Geese-Swans”) and “History” . Work on this cycle continues. On May 19, this program will be presented at the “Polite Refusal” concert dedicated to the 200th anniversary of the Moscow Fire of 1812. Here is what Moscow journalist Grigory Durnovo (author of editorial articles for the re-release of the “Polite Refusal” albums) writes about this - “..if you take a closer look at the work of “Refusal”, you can see the echoes of the war in different programs- this is “Waltz” with an epigraph from the song “Clouds have risen over the city” (album “And-and-time!..” 1992), and maybe even the ancient “We are all doomed to defeat” (Opera 1986 th). And now the war comes to the fore - without propaganda and naturalism, tormenting the soul, terrible and incomprehensible.” At the same time, on May 19, there will be an official presentation of the next release from the group’s back catalogue, “Ethnic Experiences” (1990-1994), released by the “GEOMETRIA” label on March 30. The album “Geranium” from the same series will be released in the near future.

At heart I am a very kind and sensitive person. But when I get out of the shower, I’m such a bastard!

Nature has made a lot of mistakes, and now they all come to rest on it.

Tolerance is when your ass is red with anger, and your head smiles and nods.

I searched for my soul mate for a long time, but never found it. Probably because he was born whole.

Whatever the hell jokes while God sleeps!

Decent thoughts don't wander around in empty attics.

A man without a dream is like a bird without wings. It can shit, but it can't fly...

Sometimes you have to pretend to be a fool so as not to look like an idiot.

I would like to have not only a conscience...

A woman never knows what she wants. But she knows perfectly well what she wants!

The phrases “You have to try everything in life” and “Once is a no-brainer” were coined by the same person.

Only those who look at you with tenderness have beautiful eyes...

If you have found the woman of your dreams, you can say goodbye to your other dreams.

The best part about babies is the process of making them.

When you have an interesting job, you have interesting dreams.

Discussions about the fate of the Fatherland on the leather seats of limousines sound more soulful and sincere than in queues at the labor exchange.

Don't offend our billionaires and politicians! They, like children, live at our expense.

If money doesn't make you happy, it means you don't have it.

If a woman is in a bad mood, we try to improve it; if it's good, use it.

Hell is terrible not for hot frying pans, but for those who fry on them.

Forty years is the time when it is time to finish starting life and start ending it.

Old age begins when you come to the conclusion that most of the things you would ever want will never happen, and most of the things that will happen you would never want.

In our difficult times, the sense of community has completely disappeared. All that was left was the feeling of a knee... in the ass.

The trouble is not that our work loves fools, but that they like to run it.

To become Judas, one betrayal is enough.

Relatives are a group of people who periodically gather to count themselves and have a tasty meal due to a change in their number.

Women are such touching creatures, you could touch them and touch them...

In each of us there lives a child who was forgotten to flog.

Where it is not allowed to laugh, there, as a rule, it is forbidden to cry.

What do women desire? Women want everything to be the way they want it!

A real Jew should... No, no, not like that! A real Jew should!

All is not lost yet! More to lose and lose!

Having a conscience is not profitable at all - it is much more profitable to sell it at a higher price.

A person is never as unhappy as he thinks, or as happy as he wants.

A jealous husband is looking for a lover in the closet, a smart one is looking for things that he did not buy for his wife.

If a woman begins a sentence with the words “I don’t want to offend you,” prepare to hear the most offensive thing in your life.

There are two types of women: the first sell their availability, and the second sell their inaccessibility.

Life is like a dog sled. If you are not the leader, the picture never changes.

He who is married is not afraid of a vuvuzela!

If a woman doesn’t want to have sex, then she has a headache. If a man doesn't want to have sex, then he's a soulless bastard.

As Berezovsky says, a refugee is better than a seedling.

There are many people in the world who are dissatisfied with life, but no one has ever complained about death.

It is unfair when some inherit ancestral property, while others inherit ancestral trauma.

Fortune smiles on those whom Themis does not notice.

If they try to drag you into a win-win lottery, this means that you will not leave without losing.

People understand best what they don't have.

In Russia, an optimist is not the one who is the first to shout “Hurray!”, but the one who is the last to shout “Guard!”

I don't have an alcohol addiction, I have an alcohol addiction.

One of the most common difficulties is having to turn people down. And although situations often arise at work in which, due to your professional responsibilities, you simply cannot say “no,” other circumstances will arise from day to day that provide you with a certain freedom of choice. How to exercise your right to say “no” and correctly formulate a refusal?

Think about it this way: by not saying “no” at the right time, you will put the other person's needs before your own. Is this what you really want? There are many situations at work when your needs are no less important, and in some circumstances even more important than the needs of your colleagues. Remember how often your colleagues refused you. And you calmly and without irritation accepted this answer. So why worry about someone being upset if you behave in the same way?

The real problem is that saying “yes” all the time can easily become a habit, and changing a ingrained behavior pattern is really difficult. Remember your colleagues. Can you guess what to expect from each of them? Probably yes. Similarly, your colleagues, having become accustomed to your dependability, will most likely begin to turn to you with so many requests that you simply cannot fulfill them. Thus, the habit of constantly agreeing to requests at work will lead you to overwhelm, because you take on more than you can do or what you really should do. This leads to stress, frustration, hostility, conflict and mistakes, and it only gets worse over time.

So, saying no when you feel like it is an important skill to master. You will probably have situations where you want to help someone, even if it is inconvenient for you. Remember: it means respecting your needs and rights as much as the rights of others, and agreeing to compromise when necessary.

Take things gradually and don't try to do everything at once. Try one new skill and hone it until you get it right. Be prepared for the fact that not everything will work out right away. You want to learn new skills, and there are always ups and downs in the process of learning something new.

Many people don’t like to say “no,” believing that the only way to do it is outright refusal. This “no” may seem rude and aggressive. And this is usually not the impression you want to make at work. Are you trying to establish a good relationship with colleagues, but you will inevitably have to refuse someone for your own sake - your health and well-being. This means you must be able to say no, but in a way that shows respect for the other person's needs. Eat different ways refuse, which depend on the situation. Here are three main options.

Direct refusal- the most uncompromising method, and it is rarely suitable for use at work. It is most often resorted to when someone's rights are violated. In such cases, you can loudly and firmly add: “Can’t you hear, I said no.”

Please provide Additional information or a promise “some other time”- an opportunity for discussion, while refusal remains among the possible options.

Thoughtful "no"- the most delicate way, because you show that you have listened to your interlocutor.

Below I will explain in detail what each of these options is, but the choice will depend on the situation, your attitude towards it and who is making the request, because this could be your mentor, your direct manager, a colleague or a team member who you really care about. want to help.

Don’t try to radically and suddenly change your behavior. This is especially true for refusals, as you may shock colleagues who were not expecting the leopard to suddenly change its color. It is much better to start small, train hard and change gradually.

9 ways to say no

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At heart I am a very kind and sensitive person. But when I get out of the shower, I’m such a bastard!

Nature has made a lot of mistakes, and now they all come to rest on it.

Tolerance is when your ass is red with anger, and your head smiles and nods.

I searched for my soul mate for a long time, but never found it. Probably because he was born whole.

Whatever the hell jokes while God sleeps!

Decent thoughts don't wander around in empty attics.

A man without a dream is like a bird without wings. It can shit, but it can't fly...

Sometimes you have to pretend to be a fool so as not to look like an idiot.

I would like to have not only a conscience...

A woman never knows what she wants. But she knows perfectly well what she wants!

The phrases “You have to try everything in life” and “Once is a no-brainer” were coined by the same person.

Only those who look at you with tenderness have beautiful eyes...

If you have found the woman of your dreams, you can say goodbye to your other dreams.

The best part about babies is the process of making them.

When you have an interesting job, you have interesting dreams.

Discussions about the fate of the Fatherland on the leather seats of limousines sound more soulful and sincere than in queues at the labor exchange.

Don't offend our billionaires and politicians! They, like children, live at our expense.

If money doesn't make you happy, it means you don't have it.

If a woman is in a bad mood, we try to improve it; if it's good, use it.

Hell is terrible not for hot frying pans, but for those who fry on them.

Forty years is the time when it is time to finish starting life and start ending it.

Old age begins when you come to the conclusion that most of the things you would ever want will never happen, and most of the things that will happen you would never want.

In our difficult times, the sense of community has completely disappeared. All that was left was the feeling of a knee... in the ass.

The trouble is not that our work loves fools, but that they like to run it.

To become Judas, one betrayal is enough.

Relatives are a group of people who periodically gather to count themselves and have a tasty meal due to a change in their number.

Women are such touching creatures, you could touch them and touch them...

In each of us there lives a child who was forgotten to flog.

Where it is not allowed to laugh, there, as a rule, it is forbidden to cry.

What do women desire? Women want everything to be the way they want it!

A real Jew should... No, no, not like that! A real Jew should!

All is not lost yet! More to lose and lose!

Having a conscience is not profitable at all - it is much more profitable to sell it at a higher price.

A person is never as unhappy as he thinks, or as happy as he wants.

A jealous husband is looking for a lover in the closet, a smart one is looking for things that he did not buy for his wife.

If a woman begins a sentence with the words “I don’t want to offend you,” prepare to hear the most offensive thing in your life.

There are two types of women: the first sell their availability, and the second sell their inaccessibility.

Life is like a dog sled. If you are not the leader, the picture never changes.

He who is married is not afraid of a vuvuzela!

If a woman doesn’t want to have sex, then she has a headache. If a man doesn't want to have sex, then he's a soulless bastard.

As Berezovsky says, a refugee is better than a seedling.

There are many people in the world who are dissatisfied with life, but no one has ever complained about death.

It is unfair when some inherit ancestral property, while others inherit ancestral trauma.

Fortune smiles on those whom Themis does not notice.

If they try to drag you into a win-win lottery, this means that you will not leave without losing.

People understand best what they don't have.

In Russia, an optimist is not the one who is the first to shout “Hurray!”, but the one who is the last to shout “Guard!”

I don't have an alcohol addiction, I have an alcohol addiction.