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The word "culture" is multifaceted. What, first of all, does true culture contain? It carries the concept of spirituality, light, knowledge and true beauty. And if people understand this, then our country will become prosperous. And therefore it would be very good if every city and town had its own cultural center, a creative center not only for children, but also for people of all ages.

True culture is always aimed at upbringing and education. And such centers should be headed by people who understand well what real culture is, what it consists of, and what its significance is.

The key note of culture can be such concepts as peace, truth, beauty. It would be good if honest and selfless people, selflessly devoted to their work, and respecting each other, were involved in culture. Culture is a huge ocean of creativity, there is enough space for everyone, there is something for everyone. And if we all begin to participate together in its creation and strengthening, then our entire planet will become more beautiful. 152 words

Microthemes for the text “True Culture”

1. True culture carries the concept of spirituality, and if people understand this, the country will become prosperous.

2. True culture always educates.

3. Culture needs to be developed, and this should be done both by dedicated people who understand the high goals facing culture, and by each of us.

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The word "culture" is multifaceted. True culture carries the concept of spirituality, and if people understand this, the country will become prosperous. It would be good in everyone locality have your own cultural center for people of all ages. (34 words)

True culture educates and educates. Creativity centers should be headed by people who have a good understanding of what culture is. (17 words)

The key notes of culture are peace, truth, beauty. Culture is an ocean of creativity.. It needs to be developed, and this should be done both by dedicated people who understand the high goals facing culture, and by each of us, and then our planet will become more beautiful. (38 words) (89 words in total)

Option 2:

The word "culture" is multifaceted. It carries the concepts of spirituality, knowledge, true beauty. And if people understand this, the country will become prosperous. It would be nice to have a cultural center in every city and town.

True culture is aimed at upbringing and education. Such centers should be headed by people who understand real culture and its meaning.

The key notes of culture are peace, truth, beauty. Culture should be carried out by honest people dedicated to their work. Culture is a huge ocean of creativity. There is a place and a job for everyone. If everyone takes part in its creation and strengthening, the planet will become more beautiful. (87 words in total)

Option 3:

True culture carries the concept of spirituality, and if people understand this, the country will become prosperous. It would be nice to have a cultural center in every locality for people of all ages.

True culture educates and teaches. Creativity centers should be headed by people who have a good understanding of what culture is.

The key notes of culture are peace, truth, beauty. Culture must be carried out by dedicated people. Culture is an ocean of creativity where there is something for everyone. If everyone participates in creating culture, the planet will become more beautiful.

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What does the concept of “Ego” mean and how does it differ from the concept of “I”.

When we interact with the world around us in a harmonious and balanced way, we maintain a healing state of integrity, which is commonly defined as health. An imbalance leads to the destruction of integrity and gives rise to disease. The cause of such a violation is the Ego.

Now it remains to find out what the concept of “Ego” carries and how it differs from the concept of “I”.

Let us turn to Frederick Perls's witty remark, which makes a subtle difference between these concepts: the expression “I want recognition” can easily be replaced by “my ego needs recognition.” But replacing “I want bread” with “my ego wants bread” sounds quite absurd. Thus, it becomes obvious that Ego and I are by no means identical structures.

I am spontaneous, that is, freely, authentically, that is, equal to myself and natural, just as natural is the moment when a child utters this word, recognizing his place in the world around him.

The ego is artificial, biased, pretentious, ambitious, arrogant and stupid.

I am the world, concentrating at the point of its self-determination.

The ego is the point of the absurd.

I am the moment of truth.

If we speak in detail, then Ego is the source of other people's desires and the source of your problems. The source of its own problems precisely because it is the source of other people's desires. Why is that? What kind of paradox is this?

The thing is that many of our desires, which seem to be our own, do not come from us at all. They imperceptibly penetrated inside us in the form of someone’s attitudes and occupied “the corresponding leadership positions.” And it turns out that it is not we who possess them, but they who possess us.

For example, a child is growing. It grows and develops, quietly, intimately and intimately communicating with the Universe. A compassionate grandmother creeps up to him, pats him on the head and babbles touchingly:

Granddaughter, if you eat poorly, you will never be big and strong. Don't leave anything on the plate. All the power is in the last piece.

The child, choking, swallows the contents, which, apart from disgust, do not cause any other emotions. Because he wants to become big and strong as quickly as possible.

The strict father echoes loudly:

Until you eat everything, you won’t go for a walk.

The child, like a boa constrictor, absorbs the remains of cooled food. Because he quickly wants to jump out from the table and rush out into the street.

Enveloping with tenderness kind mother chirps exultantly:

Eat, little one, eat, and when you’ve eaten everything, you’ll get something tasty.

The child sits doomedly with his mouth full and frantically tries to push the unchewed masses into the rebellious esophagus. Because he craves something tasty faster.

The child’s “I” intuitively strives for movement. His natural desire is to become strong, free and have fun. But someone else's will blocks these natural aspirations - it turns out that in order to gain strength, freedom and pleasure, you need to eat a lot. In the future, the act of eating will turn into an act of symbolic absorption.

And, having turned into an adult uncle (or aunt), little "Ego" , having become big, will declare: “In order for me to live well, conveniently, comfortably, I need to absorb a lot (here everyone has options):

• tenderness and affection;
• money;
• energy;
• compassion;
• help;
• attention;
• of things;
• veneration;
• sex;
• food, after all.

Ah, how the voice of the crying Ego is heard in the desert of the devastated mind: “I am insatiable and devouring!”

And there is nothing wrong at all if a person earns money, loves sex, seeks attention, tenderness, care and affection, and strives for self-affirmation. IN in this case the whole trouble is that he doesn’t get any of this! And the insatiable Ego, like an eagle tormenting the liver of Prometheus, asks: “Why?! Why does my neighbor have this, but I don’t?” - and begins to hate those who have it. Thus, flawed Selfishness gives rise to envy and aggression.

But the question arises: why does a person, so passionately hungry for these benefits, not receive them?

The answer is simple, although it is formulated in a seemingly paradoxical form - the whole point is that our life is the fulfillment of our desires.

Here we seem to definitely reach a dead end. How is it that, on the one hand, life is the fulfillment of desires, but on the other hand, nothing like this happens, and if it does happen, it is so rare and in relation to such trifles that it is offensive to mention them.

In fact, we have only reached an apparent dead end because, looking in front of us and seeing the wall, we do not notice the side door through which we can safely get out of the “labyrinth” without returning back.

If, even without delving into the problem, we look at it somewhat detachedly, we will easily discover obvious things that are quite consistent with the research conducted above. It turns out that there is nothing paradoxical in the fact that life fulfills all our desires. And let’s clarify right away - exactly our desires.

And they are sometimes so intimate, secret and hidden that the person who carries them within himself may not even suspect their existence.

Indeed, it is difficult to look into your subconscious.

There is no miracle at all in the fact that this happens (unless you consider life itself a miracle, of course). There is a single order of things, a single flow of Being, where patterns follow one another in strict harmony, balanced and deterministic. The “I” of a person, that is, the deepest part of his personality - a being that is a fragment of Being, naturally possesses the primordial power of Being. And what at the psychological level seems like a kind of desire, at a deeper level appears an energy impulse generating a cascade of chain reactions, which ultimately leads to a specific goal.

Means, we're talking about about the desires of the “I” and not the “Ego”. The latter is divorced from spontaneous Being, does not possess its power and is dissonant with it.

That is why any egocentric position is destroyed with the inevitability with which a tooth affected by caries falls apart.

Now situations where a person loses exactly what he most wants to have become more understandable.

Let's continue the example with our overfed child. His “I” rejects food and strives only for freedom of movement - the child wants to walk, which is quite understandable, because for children the street is a springboard for self-expression. It is as intuitive as it is intuitive for a sick animal to find the right healing herb. But food is still imposed and at the same time reinforced by social incentives and a whole system of authorities. In this way the aspirations of the “I” are suppressed and the tensions of the “Ego” are cultivated.

Growing up, this person continues to subconsciously reject the symbols of possession - money, things, relationships, sex, affection, tenderness, but compensatoryly calls on the power of the Ego to acquire them, which causes internal conflict, closing a vicious circle.

History is replete with similar situations. Salvador Dali expressed interesting opinion that Adolf Hitler started the war in order to lose it in disgrace. The idea seems shocking, scandalous - in the spirit of the personality of the master of surrealism himself. But, in essence, it is quite rational and psychoanalytically verified.

It is known that in his personal life the Fuhrer was a masochist and experienced great pleasure when he was humiliated by women, which Eva Braun masterfully succeeded in and thanks to which she remained close to the leader until the very end of the tragic events. The dictator of the Third Reich fell into violent exaltation, lying at the feet of the arrogant Frau, and, kissing her shoes, begged that the lady would kick him, humiliate her “lackey” and show all her cold authority.

Of course, in the stands the leader of the Aryans, extending right hand above the roaring crowds, he forgot about his intimate passages, but his “I” longed for self-destruction, while the “Ego,” torn apart by compensatory power-hungry complexes, demanded the destruction of the world. Ultimately, Hitler lost the war in disgrace. But his shame was his triumph. And perhaps his death was the greatest orgasm of his life.

And life itself finally fulfilled this monster’s deepest desire.

Thus, the law of wish fulfillment demonstrates its objective power.

- My husband left me. So this is what I wanted?

- And I lost my job...

- And my money was stolen...

- And they punched me in the face...

- And we have…

- And this is our true desires?!

My clients are perplexed at first, they simply refuse to believe: “How is it that my illness is the result of my intention?”

It turns out that way.

But this is not true!

I don't know. You know better. But what you say... it's hard to believe.

When you offer this information to people, you immediately encounter resistance. Of course, the Ego resists. It feels hurt and begins to put up all sorts of defenses.

From whom does the Ego protect itself?

The logic of the events under consideration leads us to a simple and obvious conclusion: the dominant and basic motive for the behavior of a human being in this world is his desire for protection.

Defense is the same as attack. This means that the defense is inherently aggressive. Aggression - from the Latin agressio - “attack”, “attack”.

During a fight, the aggressor and the defender are inseparable, they are fused, as in a love fight, and form a single whole. Every line and division between them is erased, and it is no longer possible to recognize who is who.

Therefore every defense is a potential attack.

Aggression attracts aggression. This is why those who are overly concerned with their own defense will sooner or later be attacked.

The purpose of protection is to reduce the level of basic anxiety that appears from the moment the individual is born, as well as to maintain self-esteem and a sense of self-worth. Based on psychoanalytic research, we can say that the human body, as soon as it is born, begins to defend itself.

Throughout subsequent life, the person unconsciously resorts to one or another defensive maneuvers, since both the awareness of his own importance and the constant presence of hidden anxiety, which gives rise to other unpleasant experiences, remain relevant for him.

This whole process is characterized by the following semantic series:

Defense - Defense - Attack - Aggression - Cut - Separate - Split - Injury.

It is possible to determine a particular defense by observing the subject’s behavior. Therefore, we can talk about behavioral methods of response, among which the most obvious and obvious The following are noteworthy:

Primitive isolation. A shift into a different state of consciousness is observed even in infants when they experience psychophysical discomfort. In adulthood, it is observed in a similar variant, in which the demands of reality seem too harsh. Therefore, this method of defense can be figuratively defined as “escape from reality.”

The most common forms of isolation include the use of psychoactive drugs to achieve an altered state of consciousness, or the development of excessive fantasy activity.

Other options for such a response, such as immersion in virtual worlds television, computer network, audio acoustics, are similar in meaning to the above - escaping reality through trance states.

This method of protection is characterized by: exclusion of the subject from active participation in solving the current situation, emotional coldness towards loved ones, inability to establish trusting and open relationships.

However, psychological escape from reality can occur with virtually no distortion of the latter. The subject finds peace in withdrawal from the world. The ability to stay away from stereotypes contributes to a unique and extraordinary perception of life. And here we can meet outstanding writers, mystics, gifted contemplative philosophers who have found their emotional refuge in the sphere of intellectual abstractions.

Negation. The main reactions by which one can identify a subject prone to this defense are characterized by the following remarks: “Everything is fine, and everything is for the best!”, “If I don’t admit this, then this cannot be.” Denial is an attempt to ignore real event which causes concern. An example would be a political leader who leaves office but continues to behave as if he were outstanding. statesman. An alcoholic who stubbornly refuses to admit his dependence on alcohol is also an example of denial. This protection also includes the ability to distort real picture events that have already happened in their memories.

Positive aspect: ignoring danger in a critical situation, where the manifestation of the guarantor of salvation is composure and calmness. Emotional and energetic activity in situations in which others may give in to obstacles.

Negative aspect: emotional “collapses” as a consequence of depletion of energy resources after an exalted state, in which real difficulties are diminished or not noticed at all. Depression. Dejection.

Omnipotent control. It develops from primary Egocentrism, when the newborn perceives his “I” and the world as a single whole, without any boundaries. If a baby experiences cold and at this time the person caring for him warms him, then the child has the experience as if the warmth was magically obtained by him.

The awareness that the source of life support lies outside himself has not yet appeared.

The discovery of this fact is accompanied by negative experiences that infringe on the sense of self-worth and self-respect.

In the future, such protection is actualized as a reaction of compensation to the feeling of one’s own insignificance, helplessness, dependence, and inferiority. It usually manifests itself as a “healthy remainder” and is expressed in a sense of professional competence and life effectiveness.

But there are also negative manifestations of this protection: manipulation, “stepping over others” to achieve one’s goal, authoritarianism and directiveness. The Savior complex, often observed among politicians, teachers, lawyers, and doctors, is the subject’s conviction that the fate of another person or people depends on him. Magic, in all its forms, is also a neurosis based on the idea of ​​omnipotent control carried to an intense, psychopathological form.

Primitive idealization. As the child grows up, he realizes that he is not omnipotent. Then this idea is transferred to the one who cares about him, and the latter is perceived as omnipotent. In this case we are talking about secondary, so-called dependent omnipotence. In the end, this illusion also collapses, and the child has to come to terms with the fact that his parents are not the strongest in the world.

The moment of mental maturity involves the understanding that no person has unlimited capabilities.

If a person, even in adulthood, still contains infantile qualities that have not been overcome, she tends to defend herself by creating an idol for herself. This is also where the desire to believe that rulers and the mighty of the world they have greater wisdom and power than mere mortals, although every time events show that this is just a desire, but not at all a reality.

The search for the perfect object depletes vitality, as it always leads to another disappointment, which is a terrible consequence of such protection.

Devaluation.

We are talking about primitive depreciation - back side idealization (see above).

Since the subject inevitably becomes convinced that in human life If nothing is perfect, then all sorts of primitive methods of idealization will inevitably lead to disappointment. And the more an object is exalted, the more pronounced its depreciation becomes. The more captivating the illusion, the more painful its collapse. The fate of every idol is to eventually be overthrown, and is placed on a pedestal in order to be thrown off it later. History serves as a perfect illustration of this.

IN Everyday life We are witnessing how the saying “from love to hate is one step” works. Some people, in pursuit of an ideal, get stuck in a painful cycle of idealization - devaluation, each time experiencing with new pain the fall of their idol, that is, their own disappointment.

Projection.

Attributing to another object feelings or intentions that come from the attributor himself. In this case, as a rule, the shadow qualities of the personality are projected, that is, those that are rejected by it, are repressed as undesirable and unacceptable. The content of the projection is easy to find out if you ask the subject what qualities in others irritate him the most. These are the qualities that are inherent in him.

Since it seems impossible to penetrate the soul of another person, to comprehend his inner world one has to use one’s own psycho-emotional experience, which is updated through projective mechanisms, reviving processes such as intuition, empathy, and a feeling of mystical unity with a partner.

When using this type of defense, there is a danger of misunderstanding and replacing the true with the false in interpersonal relationships. A distorted perception of another subject occurs due to attributing to him those qualities that he does not possess, which in turn leads to alienation and, ultimately, the collapse of relationships.

It is interesting to note that a person onto whom certain internal properties are projected begins to behave in accordance with these properties in relation to the projector. And thus a kind of balance is restored, working according to the principle “what I give is what I receive.” In this sense, it is useful to remember that the people around us are our own mirrors. And from this we can conclude that projecting your positive qualities is much more profitable than rejecting them. For our own projections, sooner or later, but always inevitably return to ourselves.

Introjection.

A process that is the reverse of projection, when what comes from the outside is perceived by a person as happening inside.

In an infant, this phenomenon is associated with the need for survival and development.

Long before consciously imitating his parents, he seems to “swallow” them, introducing their images inside himself.

An object that is significant to us literally becomes part of us thanks to introjection.

Introjection is the basis of deep affection, a feeling of unity with another, but at the same time it is the inability to let go of another person, recognize his freedom and autonomy, the inability to emotionally switch to others and the world as a whole. Ultimately, such entanglement leads to psychological exhaustion, Decline vitality and turns into depression.

People are constantly changing, and they are not designed to live up to our expectations. But at the same time, the introject turns out to be a fixed, “frozen” image, not a person, but his model, a scheme, which is not at all the same as a living example. And it turns out that the real person constantly leaves, eludes the one who indulges in excessive introjection and lingers on this defense. The departure of another is a rather powerful psychological trauma, because at the same time some part of one’s own “I” that was filled with this other leaves and dies.

Identification with the aggressor.

Manifests itself in the imitation of someone who can exert negative pressure. If someone masks his fear of some authority, he may adopt his manner in an exaggerated or caricatured form. “If I am like him, then his power will be within me.”

Projective identification.

It represents a projection onto another person followed by an attempt to take control over him. For example, someone may project their hostility towards another person and then fearfully expect to be attacked by that person.

Split.

As a phenomenon, it is observed even in the early period, when the baby is not able to perceive the people caring for him holistically, with all their inherent diversity of qualities and psychological shades. In the spectrum of a child’s experiences, there is either “good” or “bad”, which are attributed to the world around him depending on his own state. The entire palette of transitional positions eludes his perception, and the dialectical comprehension of life is unknown to him.

Splitting in adults is easily recognized in their political and moral assessments, when there is a tendency to search for a “common enemy” that poses a threat to the “good” representatives of a particular party or society. The tendency to divide people into “bad” and “good”, and the world into “white” and “black” also indicates the presence of a primitive way of reacting - splitting.

Splitting leads to a decrease in anxiety (the principle “better bad news than no news” is triggered), and the maintenance of self-esteem through identification, self-determination and concretization of one’s own position.

This method of defense always distorts reality and impoverishes the emotional perception of life. In his categoricalness he is close to obsession. No wonder rategoros means “Satan” in ancient Greek.

Repression (Repression).

Let's imagine the following situation. Someone receives a letter from his friend and, overjoyed, is about to answer. However, he soon pushes back his decision a little, making excuses for being too “busy” and tired or “unfortunately forgetful.” However, with some effort of will, he forces himself to write a couple of pages, only to discover that he does not have an envelope. Having purchased an envelope a week later, our unlucky character forgets to write the address, but, having completed this procedure, he keeps the letter in his coat pocket for several days, since he did not meet any Mailbox. He finally sends his reply message and sighs with relief.

The hero of the described situation turned out to be a thoughtful person, and therefore drew attention to the fact why he hesitated for such a long time to answer. After a detailed analysis of his actions and feelings, he realized that the correspondent, who was considered his friend, actually annoyed him. AND his Unconscious knew this is long before he realized his true feeling, which was repressed so as not to cause negative emotions or anxiety.

We are reluctant to remember unpleasant events in our lives or completely forget about them - the process of repression also works here.

There is a simple experiment where you are asked to remember a time or event that was accompanied by psychologically painful experiences - the death of a close friend or relative, humiliation or insult. First of all, what is noticeable is the lack of interest in clearly remembering such an incident, the resistance to talking about it. Perhaps this raises doubts about the need for such an activity, although at the beginning this idea could have been readily accepted. At the same time, all “extraneous” thoughts and doubts are also interpreted as resistance.

The essence of the described defense is to remove an unpleasant experience from consciousness and keep it at a distance from consciousness. As a result of such suppression, diseases such as asthma, arthritis, ulcers, frigidity, and impotence can even occur.

Regression.

Return to a lower level of development or to a way of expression that is simpler and more characteristic of children. Essentially, it is a return to a familiar way of doing things after reaching a new level in individual development. Every adult, even a well-adjusted one, resorts to this defense from time to time to “blow off steam.” This can be expressed in anything: people seek “thrills”, smoke, get drunk, overeat, bite their nails, pick their nose, sleep during the day, spoil things, chew gum, daydream, rebel against and obey authority, preen in the mirror, play V gambling, are sick.

Sometimes regression is used in order to play the role of the weak and thereby gain the sympathetic attention of others.

Isolation of affect.

Separation of experience from the situation. At the same time, the psycho-traumatic component of the current event is removed from consciousness. At the level of feeling, this manifests itself as detachment, alienation from the situation. Mental stupor is one of the options for isolating affect.

Intellectualization.

It manifests itself as self-control, external emotional restraint regarding a truly exciting situation. This protection indicates blocked emotional energy, inability to fully and adequately express oneself.

Rationalization.

This method of behavior involves finding acceptable reasons or reasons for unacceptable thoughts or actions. In other words, this is a rational explanation for irrational thoughts. All our excuses are our rationalizations.

Rationalization also covers up selfish motives that are accomplished under the guise of good.

For example, some parents console their power-hungry complexes by forcing their children to follow their will, citing the fact that this is done for their own benefit. A typical phrase for rationalization is: “I am doing this solely for your good.” However, in this case, it is not at all difficult to distinguish a good intention from a bad intention. Good never imposes itself. Having offered its services, it calms down, and imposed good is already evil.

Moralization.

These are the same justifications, but from the standpoint of moral obligations: “All this is done for the sake of the triumph of truth and justice.”

If the rationalizer says: “Thank you for science,” then the moralizer says: “It builds character.”

Separate thinking. Coexistence in the consciousness of two contradictory and conflicting ideas or states without awareness of this contradiction.

IN everyday life There are many examples when a zealous champion of virtue is discovered to have an extensive collection of pornographic postcards, and a famous humanist turns out to be a domestic despot and tyrant.

One common variation of this strategy is what is called hypocrisy.

Cancellation.

From the perspective of the Unconscious, a thought is equivalent to an action. This situation is the source of our superstitious, magical behavior. If in our mental depths we admit some reprehensible thought, then, as a consequence, certain feelings arise: either fear of punishment, or shame, or guilt. In order to cancel undesirable consequences, a magical compensation mechanism is activated, designed to balance the committed misconduct, to get even for it, but in a painless way.

Examples of such behavior are quite well known. There are well-known cases when we give gifts after a quarrel or an outburst of irritation the day before. In this way, the feeling of guilt is unconsciously smoothed over, and the soul can feel calm.

However, in this case, we can talk about annulment only if the internal, deep motive is not realized. (This principle applies to all other defenses - they are all applied unconsciously, and not as a deliberate strategy.)

Many of our rituals have an aspect of undoing. And since we have a hidden conviction that hostile thoughts are dangerous, the desire to atone for sins committed even only in thoughts is a universal impulse inherent in human nature at all.

Thus, the “redemptive” type of behavior can be considered a variant of revocation. Let's say a selfish and capricious child grows up to “atone for his sin” by becoming an outstanding figure in the field of human rights, and a tormentor of yard cats becomes a famous veterinarian.

Turning against yourself (Reverse feeling).

Redirecting a negative feeling intended for another object onto oneself. We notice this kind of criticism, which transforms into self-blame, in situations where we prefer to reproach ourselves rather than express our disappointment with someone else.

A positive aspect of this defense can be considered the tendency to take responsibility for what happens on oneself, rather than transfer it to others, projecting one’s unpleasant feelings. But on the other hand, in this tendency, in this case, the true motive is not a conscious readiness to be responsible, but an unconscious anxiety that needs to be amortized, which, in general, does not solve the problem.

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On the evening of February 20, 2018, on Tuesday of the first week of Great Lent, His Holiness Patriarch Kirill of Moscow and All Rus' celebrated Great Compline with the reading of the Great Penitential Canon of St. Andrei Kritsky in Epiphany cathedral in Elokhov, Moscow. At the end of the service, the Primate of the Russian Orthodox Church addressed the flock with a sermon, in which he paid special attention to the fight against the sin of despondency.

“Despondency is a very difficult mental state,” the Patriarch emphasized. There is probably not a single person who would not feel discouraged at some point in his life. And often people lose their life guidelines, lose hope, become indifferent to everything around them and even to themselves, and the most common unfavorable life circumstances can become a reason for despondency. It would seem that we should remember that everything passes in life - both good and bad - and not give in to despondency. But more often than not, when faced with difficulties, a person becomes discouraged.

“We must remember that despondency is a sin, and at the heart of this sin is a lack of faith,” the Primate recalled.

“What happens to a depressed person? He sees no way out of this situation, he loses hope. It is easy to understand when this happens to non-religious people, because a non-believer connects everything with a coincidence of circumstances, with his personal efforts or the efforts of other people, and often realizes their inadequacy to overcome despondency. But it is given to the believer to know that our life is in the hands of God, and if we do not find the strength to get out of a state of despondency, then this indicates the weakness of our faith,” the Patriarch noted.

“But faith is connected with hope. It is well known that faith generates hope, which helps people get through life's most difficult trials. When a despondent person loses hope, it can be very difficult for him to repent and confess his sins. He does not so much repent as complain - about his life, about circumstances, about relatives, about those around him, who, in his opinion, are the cause of despondency. But a believer realizes that our life is in the hands of God, that in response to faith and prayer the Lord is able "To raise up children for Abraham from these stones"(see Matthew 3:9), i.e. to do the impossible, and this faith does not follow from some conclusions, but is based on historical experience - on the experience of the Church, on the experience of the saints.”

“The sin of despondency is also dangerous because it destroys not only the most despondent person, but also carries negative energy. Everyone knows from experience what sad consequences communication with someone who has fallen into despondency leads to, because his spiritual negative energy affects those around him.

Since the cause of despondency is weak faith and lack of hope, it is impossible to cope with despondency without faith and hope. It is no coincidence that Saint Ephrem, in the prayer that we so often repeat during Lenten services, asks the Lord to deliver us from despondency. Because very often our own strength is not enough, and only the power of God is able to rescue us from the heavy captivity that affects our consciousness, fetters our will and darkens our feelings,” the Patriarch emphasized.

Color– this is something that surrounds every person every day, causing special emotions and sensations. The choice of clothing, interior items, improvised means and much more according to shades and palettes directly speaks about a person’s preferences, his state of mind and inner feelings. Preferences in colors also characterize temperament and mood regarding the upcoming event.

Choosing the right tone contributes to various effects and can even guarantee success in a variety of endeavors (at work, dating, getting to know someone important people And so on).

Understanding what certain shades and combinations carry, it will be easier for each person to navigate and even direct the course of events in the right direction. You can understand your condition, see changes in your friends and acquaintances, help improve your mood and much more by correctly selecting and combining certain colors in your style and environment (objects on your desktop, home interior and so on.).

Experts have proven that certain events or memories are directly related to one color or another. Almost everyone associates various holidays and events with bright colors such as red, orange, green, pink, yellow, etc. Sad events always blow black or gray tones.

Subconsciously, people perceive and react to colors in a similar way. Since childhood, a person gets used to perceiving red as a warning sign, prohibition and anxiety. Green, on the contrary, allows you to perform desired actions, confidently move forward, without feeling danger. Each of them has its own characteristics, affecting the perception and psychological state of a person in different ways.

Purple color in psychology

By connecting red and Blue colour, it turns out purple. Deciphering this shade has certain difficulties and several nuances. Most artists in ancient times painted pregnant girls using this shade of the palette. This phenomenon is explained by its consonance with sensuality.

IN modern world experts claim that it has a negative and even depressive effect on a person. Most self-critical, gloomy, dissatisfied individuals with life prefer to surround themselves with purple objects and clothes. By using it in small quantities you can get benefits, because purple increases self-esteem. It is worth noting that this color is not used when working with elderly people and small children.

Blue color in psychology

The blue option is preferred by many people. This happens due to tangible magnetism. It is when contemplating deep blue things that a person tends to immerse himself in thought, to reflect on the meaning of life and the eternal. In films and stories, magicians are depicted in blue robes. Buddha and Krishna are blue in color, which speaks of wisdom and inner harmony.

Most often, this option is preferred by purposeful, selfless people with personal views and point of view. Clothes in similar colors exude austerity, high spirituality and seriousness. life position. Blue has a beneficial effect on nervous system, has calming properties and extinguishes excessive passion.

Yellow color in psychology

This color is one of the brightest and most positive. The color of summer, sun and warmth has a positive effect on brain activity, improves mood and makes the imagination work. Of course, excessive use of yellow shades in clothing and interior design can lead to overstimulation. In the interior it must be harmoniously combined with darker and soothing tones.

Positive and talented individuals prefer yellow. Those who have a huge amount of ideas and talents. Purposeful, positive people who are able to adapt to their interlocutor. In addition to all these positive characteristics yellow has the other side of the coin. It is he who is considered a symbol of dementia and madness.

Green color in psychology

Green is a symbol of spring, rebirth and peace of mind. The healing and relaxing properties have long been proven. Prolonged contemplation of green brings with it absent-mindedness and boredom.

Lovers of the green palette have balance, efficiency, internal harmony and the ability to logically assess the situation. Green extinguishes negative impacts depressive and negative colors. That is why it is combined with dark depressive tones (purple, black, etc.) creating ideal clothes and interiors.

Red color in psychology

A victorious color characterized by excessive activity, determination, rigidity and even aggressiveness. It is also red that is associated with passion, love and self-sacrifice. It is most often used in marketing concepts (posters, advertising, etc.) and in danger warning signs (road, traffic lights). Experts do not recommend getting carried away and looking at the red color of the palette for a long time.

Individuals who sympathize with red have strong character, obvious courage and determination. Passion, impulsiveness, power and perseverance can play both to the benefit and to the detriment of a person.

Orange color in psychology

Orange is pretty close to yellow. It has similar features and properties. Cheerfulness, positive attitude, passion, readiness to solve complex problems, joy and spontaneity - all this carries with it this option palettes. Orange has a positive effect on a person and lifts him out of a depressed state after heavy losses and disappointments. Included in the list best flowers for psychotherapy.

Lovers of this color have forgiving, easy-going, bright character traits. It is worth considering that their characteristic is inconstancy and arrogance.

Lilac color in psychology

The symbol of affection and warm feelings is precisely purple colour. He pushes on philosophical views for life, peace of mind and the feeling of flight.

Lilac lovers are very romantic, sentimental, dreamy, romantic and sensual people. Despite their gentle nature, they have impeccable mental abilities and excellent ingenuity. Attentive attitude to my appearance and to the appearance of others, the willingness to help is another quality inherent in “lilac” people.

Blue color in psychology

Surrounding yourself blue flowers, a person feels comfort, security and reliability. It allows you to disconnect from all problems, not think about tomorrow and existing problems.

All those who prefer this shade option are concentrated, self-confident, straightforward and focused individuals. These are excellent office workers. Those who know how to quietly but confidently achieve the desired result.

Pink color in psychology

The color of naivety, childhood, carelessness and love is pink. Naive dreams and fantasies, calm and distraction from bad thoughts– these are the properties that pink paints have.

Pink lovers are very hardworking, dreamy and dedicated to their work. They are touchy, whiny, have a kind temperament and even childish naivety.

Black color in psychology

Despite the associations with grief and sadness, black always attracts the attention of others. The embodiment of strength, confidence, intrigue, wealth and mystery also carries with it this variant of the palette. In moments of depression, it only aggravates the situation, prolongs the process of sadness and detachment from the world around us.

Black lovers are most often gloomy, self-contained and overly serious individuals.

White color in psychology

Purity, innocence and exceptionally light associations are carried by white tones. New beginnings, a symbol of freedom, inspiration, peace and faith.

Medical workers wear white coats. This is due to the color's associations with goodness, honesty and perfection. In many countries, this color is present in traditional attire. It is impossible to accurately reveal the character of white lovers, since it is widely used as work clothes. It looks impressive in combination with other color options and is a classic option.

Turquoise color in psychology

It is the coldest of the entire palette of shades. It has a very attractive appearance and leaves no one indifferent. Brings coolness sea ​​waves, healing, peace and creativity. Many people prefer to wear turquoise jewelry, which brings good luck and protects its owner.

Gray color in psychology

A mixture of completely opposite colors (black and white) carries a neutral feeling. The “golden mean” is mostly ignored by people and is associated with workdays and everyday life. Despite the fact that few people pay attention to the color gray, it conveys friendliness, calmness, stability, realism and common sense.

A small percentage of those who prefer gray are friendly, courteous and patient by nature. Preferring and surrounding oneself with gray tones indicates a person’s emotional exhaustion and nervousness.

Brown color in psychology

A symbol of hard work, reliability, stability, dedication to work and one’s business - this is cinnamon. Negative side is the association of brown with doubts and disappointments.

Those who prefer brown colors palettes are purposeful and loving life personalities. They are thoughtful, rational and optimistic.

Psychology of color in clothing

For business meetings and promotions at work, strict outfits in blue, light blue, brown, and gray are ideal. Combinations of white flowers with black also have a positive effect.

Meeting with friends and relatives, walks in the park, around the city require brighter and richer colors, especially if it is a warm period of time. Clothes in green, yellow, turquoise, lilac, and orange tones cannot be ignored and left hanging in the closet.

For a date or a romantic dinner, the fairer sex quite often resorts to outfits with red accents and elements. This move ignites passion and has an exciting effect on partners.

Psychology of color in the interior

Bright shades (yellow, orange, green, red) are most often used when decorating a kitchen. Furniture in these colors helps increase appetite and improve mood.

Blue, violet and cyan are actively used in bathrooms.

It is not advisable to use blue, purple and white colors in children's rooms. It is best to organize children's rooms in pink, peach and other warm colors.

Very often, public institutions (cafes, restaurants, hotels) resort to decorating their premises using brown and red shades.

Only the Moon of my loneliness is a quiet witness -
A silent witness in the sleepless dark nights.
We knew her in some distant century -
In a forgotten... melted world of departed shadows...

And of course she watched, just like today,
Behind my naked, slightly strange soul...
And perhaps at that time the world seemed to me like hell,
Where she burned... in love, rejecting dislike, - with a candle...

It's impossible to remember... but the feeling in my heart is,
As if my karma is a macrame of black and white poems...
I don't know who I should thank for the past.
This is all behind the seal of seven rusty locks...

My path today is paved with poetic deeds,
“Tomorrow” I want to sing my ode to spring,
Without losing this life-giving feeling along the way -
This passion that rebels in my veins...

May I never remember a day or today’s night.
Only it will be night again and the same moon in the sky...
And the soul will plunge into (mine - not mine) between the lines
These lines where she remains young for eternity...

In a soul in love, the desire for life will not dry out...
Even death is not capable of killing this passion in the soul.

After all, the soul with this light will continue to circle the world...

Even if this world appears again - the underworld -
A trembling light will remain in a loving soul...
There is nothing nobler than love in the world...
And love is life, where the dawn always wins...

Without love, lines are not born, poetry does not flow...
Without love, the soul would not bring beauty into this world...
Without love, this earth would not be warmed by the sun's rays
And in the spring flowers would not be born again on earth...

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Nick, you will completely praise me :) Thank you. I don’t know where this verse came to me from, but it happens that something is written, but God knows where the thoughts come from..

Lena, don’t blame God. I laugh Even if the verse is from God, we are the guides, and we are responsible for how we present it. You pay a compliment to God with your poems, but there are authors here who immediately write at the entrance to the page - I don’t write the poems - God!
And the text is poor. I laugh at them. I have a verse on this topic, approximately, “the artist was not offended by talent.”

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